@ReamusLQ: I'm a computer geek, too, you know. Being a geek doesn't mean you don't love, or think about love. Besides, I know of a few other people on this forum who would be very interested in discussing the matter (for example, I think Seb has mentioned a few times he enjoys the topic).
If you don't want to discuss it, you don't have to say anything, you know
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@Danny: Don't give up! It's hard, but I doubt it's impossible.