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ReamusLQ 15-07-2005 06:40 AM

I'm curious as to other people's experiences with relationships. Myself, I have never ONCE been broken up with. I'm not a jerk (although if the guy ends the relationship, the girls think ihe is a prick, but if the girl does she "did the right thing"...hmmmm) and don't break up simply because I have my eye on another girl, but I have always been the one to end the relationship. I'm sad to say, I have made a few girls cry...actually, everyone I broke up with because my relationships usually last a long time.

So yeah, are you usually broken up with? Or do you do the breaking up?

BeefontheBone 15-07-2005 09:48 AM

Voted for the hermit thing, because it's funny, but usually I've been a dumper rather than a dumpee, and for entirely crappy reasons which I always regret later. Yay me!

A. J. Raffles 15-07-2005 09:55 AM

Crappy reasons like these? :P
1)"Right, that's the second time in three months that you've worn blue socks with that red skirt. Enough is enough!" *dump*
2)"You put milk in your Earl Grey tea???" *dump*
3)" 'Humpty Dumpty sat on a wall...' - hey, that reminds me of something:" *dump*
4) "Your algorithms are all wrong. I'm frightfully sorry, old girl, but I can't possible date a bad mathematician." *dump*
5) "Heads I dump her, tails I don't dump her... heads." *dump*

lethe 15-07-2005 09:57 AM

What a timing....

I never seem to get enough of girls... Maybe I'm not capable to commit myself to love someone, maybe they aren't good enough for me, maybe I'm just too weird. I usually dump them when I've had enough of trying to have something, which I usually don't... I have a terrible tendency to get to their core though, and leave my mark imprinted there, which is a thing that I should be flattered about, but that just scares the hell out of me, and makes me avoid to trust more and more people.

Six months ago I was dumped for the first time. She said I was too dangerous for her, and even though she loved me she couldn't stay with me. Last week she came back with a boyfriend, now she refuses to talk to me because some feelings never fade. Weirdly enough, she left something behind too.

Havell 15-07-2005 10:02 AM

I went for mutual as I seen incapable of pulling while at home/school. But I can manage it while away from home on holiday or something. Of course, the person I meet always lives in deepest, darkest Yorkshire, Milton Keynes or some other hellhole so we spend a little while doing the whole e-mailing thing before it falls to bits.

BeefontheBone 15-07-2005 10:07 AM

Yorkshire a hellhole? That would be a good enough reason to dump you :P Milk in Earl grey's pretty bad though...

efthimios 15-07-2005 10:59 AM

Hmm, well the only reason that I have heard so far from either women or men (men for friendships only). is that I am a bad influence. Seriously I do not know how they reach that conclusion but I have heard it so many times the last few years that it puzzles me. Are they all nuts?

Quintopotere 15-07-2005 11:29 AM

Well i'm an hermit, so i had not problem for voting this poll :D :bleh:

Seriously, like I writed in another topic i have The Curse that is keeping girls far from me, so ending relationship is not my problem :D :cry:

Anyway i think that is better ending with a common decision!

Astral 15-07-2005 11:42 AM

Well, i vote for hermit :D , at the end we all leave alone :whistle:

And for some reason i never end a relashionship, allways the dirty work did the other side :max: even if i want it to end or i don't and it desapointed me... But here i am with another one again :w00t: , it's doesn't mutter who end it, just live your short life :ok:

Chuck the plant 15-07-2005 12:25 PM

I'm waiting for the "colour and consistence of your morning-dump"-poll now... :blink:


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