Realistic Strategy Games
 

Im thinking games similar to TacOps 4 or something so i can get my fill of awesome deadly realistic sending-my-troops-to-their-death's

know any?

I kinda want World War 1 games that feature the war on a grand scale (you get a map of Europe) but is challenging, or maybe a Cold War one, kinda like world in conflict but more realistic :D

Men of War

Theatre of War 2

Pretty much everything on this site: http://www.battlefront.com/

Defcon from Introversion is a Cold War game that pops in my head. It's meant to simulate the cold detachment of plotting nuclear destruction from a control panel. It's kind of like if Global Thermonuclear War from the movie Wargames were real life.

Otherwise, I can only think of the Total War games, but they're not modern. And there are SSI games that I never played.

I got Defcon :D

Theatre of war looks good, and Battlefront games are awesome though i've only played Combat Mission: Shockforce: Marines

Thought the Shockforce: NATO game coming out is goona be watched by me, I get to command Canadians! ITS ABOUT TIME we got some credit!

Soldiers: Heroes of World War 2.
First part of the non-official trilogy(Faces of War and Men of War)
nuff said

Realistic games, huh?

Field Ops
Gary Grigsby's games or Heart of Iron which I'm sure you've already tried.

But I guess you're looking for something more like Air Assault Taskforce, or maybe some of Tiller's games, like War Over the Mideast or The Mexican American War

But then again except one of Gary Grigsby's games, I haven't tried any of those.

If you insist on WWI there's AGEOD's World War One and 1914: the Great War