I'm curious as to other people's experiences with relationships. Myself, I have never ONCE been broken up with. I'm not a jerk (although if the guy ends the relationship, the girls think ihe is a prick, but if the girl does she "did the right thing"...hmmmm) and don't break up simply because I have my eye on another girl, but I have always been the one to end the relationship. I'm sad to say, I have made a few girls cry...actually, everyone I broke up with because my relationships usually last a long time.

So yeah, are you usually broken up with? Or do you do the breaking up?

Voted for the hermit thing, because it's funny, but usually I've been a dumper rather than a dumpee, and for entirely crappy reasons which I always regret later. Yay me!

Crappy reasons like these? :P
1)"Right, that's the second time in three months that you've worn blue socks with that red skirt. Enough is enough!" *dump*
2)"You put milk in your Earl Grey tea???" *dump*
3)" 'Humpty Dumpty sat on a wall...' - hey, that reminds me of something:" *dump*
4) "Your algorithms are all wrong. I'm frightfully sorry, old girl, but I can't possible date a bad mathematician." *dump*
5) "Heads I dump her, tails I don't dump her... heads." *dump*

What a timing....

I never seem to get enough of girls... Maybe I'm not capable to commit myself to love someone, maybe they aren't good enough for me, maybe I'm just too weird. I usually dump them when I've had enough of trying to have something, which I usually don't... I have a terrible tendency to get to their core though, and leave my mark imprinted there, which is a thing that I should be flattered about, but that just scares the hell out of me, and makes me avoid to trust more and more people.

Six months ago I was dumped for the first time. She said I was too dangerous for her, and even though she loved me she couldn't stay with me. Last week she came back with a boyfriend, now she refuses to talk to me because some feelings never fade. Weirdly enough, she left something behind too.

I went for mutual as I seen incapable of pulling while at home/school. But I can manage it while away from home on holiday or something. Of course, the person I meet always lives in deepest, darkest Yorkshire, Milton Keynes or some other hellhole so we spend a little while doing the whole e-mailing thing before it falls to bits.

Yorkshire a hellhole? That would be a good enough reason to dump you :P Milk in Earl grey's pretty bad though...

Hmm, well the only reason that I have heard so far from either women or men (men for friendships only). is that I am a bad influence. Seriously I do not know how they reach that conclusion but I have heard it so many times the last few years that it puzzles me. Are they all nuts?

Well i'm an hermit, so i had not problem for voting this poll :D :bleh:

Seriously, like I writed in another topic i have The Curse that is keeping girls far from me, so ending relationship is not my problem :D :cry:

Anyway i think that is better ending with a common decision!

Well, i vote for hermit :D , at the end we all leave alone :whistle:

And for some reason i never end a relashionship, allways the dirty work did the other side :max: even if i want it to end or i don't and it desapointed me... But here i am with another one again :w00t: , it's doesn't mutter who end it, just live your short life :ok:

I'm waiting for the "colour and consistence of your morning-dump"-poll now... :blink:

Ha...sooo many hermits on this forum. Oh well, it is what I should have expected from a forum full of gamers LOL

It's mutual. That's about it really, not much to say. A relationship ends when a relationship ends.

Not true...I dated a girl once who I boke up with like, four times. Actually, I did it once, but she kept saying "No, we can work things out. Ok, but let's still go on dates and hold hands and act like we're together" and became a total psycho. I even lied to her to get her away and said "I cheated on you!" but all she said to me was "well, we can work it out!" This relationship ended in major major tears for her, and a sigh of relief from me. I have not once, had a relationship end mutually.

Im a hermit. always have been.

heh...it also helps that you're only thirteen and girls still have cooties :ok:

meh. *returns to operation flashpoint*

I guess "unvoluntary hermit" (if it was there) might apply to me, but I nulled my vote as there might still be some hope :bleh:

@ Danny

You play Flashpoint?

I'm gutted that I lost my install code, or I'd love to have a game some day.

Do you have all the mods like FDF and JAM etc.?

@ Everyone who's on topic

Here's my recommendation - Remember kids, you'll almost never keep a partner as a friend if you break up with them.

Think First. Love later.

I'm usually the one that dumps the girl. And usually it's because I get bored and never intended it to get too serious. Right now I'm in my longest relationship yet; it's lasted for 1.5 years and I don't feel like breaking up yet :Brain:

theres an install code? I just downloaded the thing off limewire.. took some tinkering but worked...
as did Deus Ex..
and I didnt even know there were mods! i have yet to complete the campaign as my sister fecked it up and sent it back to mission one. I was so far... so many deaths.. so many kills... so many kicks on the computer...

and Im sort of an unvoluntary hermit too, to be ontopic

Get Resistance or the one where you play as the commies. I prefered them to the original.

*turns on limewire*
now, anywho, back to the topic. I like my forum all clean and spangly..

I've been the dumper in most of my relationships...

Usually, it's after a long period of sucktasticness until I finally just say to myself, "Dammit, even God wouldn't have enough patience for this crap :tai: " and end it as amicably as possible. I think that's mainly because I am attracted to guys who don't actually seem to like me, hehe. More challenge, I suppose.

My last boyfriend dumped me, however. This was about the fifth time though, and finally, I just was like... okay, get out of my face, even though, as usual, he came back a few days later <_<

And yet, still friends with him. There's only a couple boyfriends I've had that I just can't stand, the rest, we can still hang out in friendly sort of way.